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Sexy or Safe?

I picked up this skirt at Goodwill recently and I love it.

The color is fabulous, it fits me really well and is incredibly versatile.

Here are two ways of wearing a simple, solid-colored skirt.

The first way is “sexy” or dressed up with a metallic sweater, gold belt and dressy pumps.

The second is “safe” or dressed down with a simple gray t-shirt and birkenstocks.

These two outfits were worn the same day. The first I wore to church in the morning, then came home and changed before leaving to hang with a friend.

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The Truth

I am 5 feet 5 inches (although you might often hear me say I’m 5’6″ because that extra inch seems so glamorous) and weigh 152 pounds.

I am a size 12.

I just want to give whoever is reading this blog the truth about my size, so they don’t A) think I’m a skinny twig (which is so far from the truth) and/or B) feel badly about their size when they look at my pictures.

I recently looked at StyleMint, Mary Kate & Ashley’s new line of clothes and was appalled that the largest size they offered was a size 4.

I could lose fifty pounds and I would still not fit into a size 4. I am not unhealthy nor out of shape, but I am completely aware and okay with the fact that I have (what my mother would call) “birthing hips”. I am entirely content with my size and not trying to be any smaller.

I hate that they would only offer sizes that small making other women feel as if they are in some way incompetent or not worthy to wear their clothing.

Here’s the truth:

Wear your size and wear it proudly.

Don’t try to wear something smaller than your size making you look uncomfortable and bulgy. And don’t wear sizes larger than you are because it’ll make you look frumpy or baggy.

But figure out your size and buy clothes that fit right. It doesn’t matter what size you are as long as your clothes fit well.

I’m not saying don’t take care of yourself, but if you’re out of shape or a bit overweight, start exercising and eating right as best as you can, but in the meantime wear clothes that make you look and feel good.

And remember that a clothing size is just a number and it’s how you wear it that counts.

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Happy Fashion Friday!

Lydia’s Closet Makeover

Lydia asked me to come over to help her come up with some dressier work outfits.

She had found herself in a rut always wearing jeans and a dressy shirt to work, but wanted me to give her some more options.

Lydia works in the schools, like me, so her clothing attire is business casual most of the time.

She is gorgeously (yes, I am fully aware I just made that word up) tall and has a fabulously sophisticated closet (which includes a pair of Manolo Blahniks…gasp!).

In her closet there were quite a few dresses and blouses, but very few skirts. She told me that because her torso and legs are so long, it’s hard for her to find skirts that fit her well.

Despite the lack of skirts, I feel like we were able to come up with quite a few outfits that range from casual to fairly dressy, but all very comfortable and perfect for Lydia’s work attire.

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#1-Lydia has had this dress for awhile, but only wore it to really dressy events (weddings, etc.). To make it more “work acceptable”, we dressed it down by adding a denim jacket with rolled up cuffs and some brown leather booties.

#2-Because Lydia lacks skirts, we “made” our own by layering it with a flowy blouse and belting it.

#3-Same concept of layering, but this time using a tapered blouse with no belt. We topped it off with a matching blue necklace and nude pumps, which elongate her legs (not that Lydia needs help with that 😉 ).

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#4-We again layered and belted a blouse over a dress, giving Lydia a new “skirt” and added some black tights with nude pumps.

#5-This is a much more casual outfit, but is still work appropriate. The neon green shirt was layered over the chambray shirt and topped off with a beautiful & sophisticated floral scarf.

#6-Lydia came up with this one all on her own (way to go!) and layered a skirt over a dress, giving it an entirely new look.Lydia 3

#7-Lydia had a box of sweaters that she liked, but never got around to wearing. I fell in love with this gray one because of it’s softness and sexy cowl neckline and added it to a sleek, black pencil skirt. We belted it with a skinny black belt to accentuate Lydia’s curves instead of them getting lost under the bulkiness of the sweater.

#8-V-neck sweaters are a great addition to any wardrobe (especially animal print ones!) and look wonderful layered over blouses with different, but complimentary prints. Worn with the same skirt, but has a completely different look than #7 and is again finished off with some classic black slingbacks (these would be the famous Manolos I spoke of earlier).

Three simple rules of layering that can easily expand your wardrobe:

1. Layer a blouse over a dress and belt it.

2. Layer a skirt over a dress.

3. Layer a V-neck sweater over a feminine blouse.

And Lydia was going to donate more than half of the items we used!! Now she has a new use for them and is able to repurpose them back into her daily use.

Happy Fashion Friday!